Corporal Punishment
Impact Play
C.B.T.
Impact Play and CP – For CBT and Ball busting scroll below!
In the context of BDSM, these can be defined as impacting another person (by hand or other implements), often to achieve that sweet mix of pain and pleasure. This is a common practice in BDSM, a form of consensual play.
Personally, I believe that there is a difference between CP and impact play! Others may use the terms interchangeably or disagree with my concept!
Corporal punishment can be defined as sadomasochism, the infliction of pain, as retributive punishment.
Like everything in BDSM this is a subjective matter with a lot of nuances. There are shades here of course, even hard-core masochists can crave almost all types of implements but have some they can’t really take or have certain body parts where they can’t take the pain.
So, to summarise it, impact play can be used as:
1-Behaviour modification/ Discipline/ Punishment. Let’s face it, you need it, you know you need it. Either you did a transgression (and at a point you all do it) or I need to teach you a lesson and discipline you so that you are the best version of yourself.
It can be role-played, but sometimes behind the role play there can be a real old transgression that needs to be punished. Some do come to get a release that is related to certain past/present misdemeanours.
2-Just for the love of it, to create a sublime connection between us as your body submits to the pain and understands the pleasure behind it, the pleasure it brings Me as well. It can be for gratification, stress relief or the simple pleasure of pain.
As a role play it can bring a bit of more zing to the play!
But in both cases what I find appealing is simply the act of striking you, combined with the visible mental but also physical responses you give, I love hearing your gasps or moans or even cry, and seeing the marks I leave on your body. I love how empowering it is when I have your body to play like a violin as I seem fit!
It should be obvious that it follows under the paradigm of SSC, so it needs to be consensual play.
Also, being a masochist doesn’t necessarily mean you’re submissive.
There are also physical masochists that enjoy taking the pain, and then there are mental masochists who can be thought to take the pain, whose pleasure derives from temporary periods of pain or discomfort that ultimately led to some delayed gratification, or doing it for their Mistress/Goddess. Confusing, I know!
It doesn’t always have to hurt until the point of crying; it can be a deeply intense and intimate play, a light spanking, a few slow hits of the cane. You, going over my knees, I began with a slow caress, maybe using my nails to lightly scratch your bum, your heart race going up while you hear me whisper “and now it begins”.
Then there is the reverse of it where no warmup is given, and the hits received are as tough and strong. Where there is no softness just the pure delight of inflicting utmost pain.
If you are a beginner, I recommend, as always to start slowly. Pain tolerance can be increased over time.
Things are of course pre-discussed, and you will receive safe words (except if we do CNC, but that is another story). But I will also always pay attention to your body responses, while the discipline will be dished out. And I will take into consideration if you can be marked or not.
Some of the tools I enjoy using on you
Hand/ Spanking- I find OTK so intimate and many times more of a sensual play than hard core, depending on how one increases the pain tolerance. It is perfect to introduce newbies to this delicious world of pleasurable pain.
Flogging- Same it can be used as an erotic play- with feather like caress, intimate touches and light sensations and can be good for beginners. But, like any other tool, it can be used to bring some level of pain too.
Tawsing -there is something special about that leather strap (it can be single tail or with several tails).
Paddling/wooden spoon/brush- Paddles come either in wood or leather. It can be a quite painful experience.
Riding Crop – I love the look of it, and it has multiple uses.
I adore face slapping, always did even as a child- And if you do not know your place be sure you will get a very hard slap from me.
Canning- one of my favourites. There are different types of canes, personally I prefer rattan, but they can be fiberglass, leather and plastic. Sometimes it can be useful to use a different fabric as to change the sensation or hardens received.
This is a perfect technique to help you drift into subspace, that wonderful floating sensation.
For me, canning is an art, and you are my canvas. I love the sound of swoosh it makes, the way your butt cheeks ripple when I hit, the perfect straight ladder lines it creates on your bum, and the small gasps I get from you. Pure art for both my eyes and ears!
In order for you to be able to take more it is important to learn how to breath correctly. You can’t imagine how much of a game changer it is if you know how to control your breath – deep and slow!
Your position and the room temperature can affect how well you can take the hits.
Why do I Like Pain?
The idea of being sexually aroused by pain can be confusing as it can seem to some that pain is something to avoid, but context matters, individual preference matters, arousal, connection etc.
Plus, your brain can tell the difference between “good and bad pain” or pain that is unwanted and pain that is being felt in a pleasurable context.
If done correctly, hormones such as dopamine and oxytocin are released and all the above can lead to that pleasurable pain and ultimately to the subspace.
I reckon it is obvious why this is such a good tool both for pleasure, reaching that subspace but also to help modify one’s behaviour.
One last note: Be aware sub drop is real, depending on the severity of the play. There are a few ways to help with sub drop and again it can be different from individual to individual.
C.B.T. and Ball Busting
There are a lot of things to say about this fetish, a lot of techniques to torture the ball and the cocks.
It is something I have an attraction for since I was young, either randomly hitting boys in the nuts, just for the fun of it, but mostly as a form of punishment. When they were being assholes, well, it was my pleasure to show them that and discipline them.
Sometimes I used mind games, sometimes I just hit them in the nuts, and I enjoyed doing it!
Later on, I discovered I enjoy tormenting the cock and balls. Just simply by pulling, twisting, slapping, hitting etc and so my fetish was born.
That is the only way in which I will enjoy using your cock. Either, tormenting it by pain or tease or being locked up for me.
I love you surrendering your manhood to me; I experience an immense pleasure from knowing you offer something that for males is considered of the utmost importance.
Usually, I love all that has to do with torturing a male’s cock. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate man, or any of that bullshit, I literally love hurting your cock and I enjoy hearing you beg for it. And also, it’s like it’s begging for it, that mush piece of meat, just needs and wants me to grab it, twist it and hurt it!
There are different types of CBT: Ball busting, Hand on torture, Bondage, Flogging, Wax play, Chastity, Penis trampling, Sounding, Electrostimulation, Testicular Stretching, Needle play.
And it can range from light (can also heighten your sensitivity and make the orgasms feel better) to well, quite very brutal, turning your balls blue/purple or even worse.