Frequently Asked Questions
Welcome to my FAQ page. Here, you’ll find answers to some of the most commonly asked questions about sessions with me, etiquette, and other important related topics. Whether you’re a seasoned submissive or new to the scene, my goal is to offer you with a safe, discreet, and unforgettable experience. If you have any questions that aren’t addressed on this page, you may get in touch with me.
Do you travel outside London/UK for sessions?
I do, on occasion, travel outside of London, if you would like to know when I am next on a tour of the UK or if I might consider adding a visit to your area on my next “wander-about” then feel free to get in touch.
Pictures/Videos
No photos or videos will be taken during the session unless you have expressly consented to this. I keep my session private and I usually don’t focus on taking pictures (if not part of the play).
But some actively enjoy being photographed and/or filmed to appear on my social media but your anonymity & confidentiality will always be respected if you wish so (a mask or hood can be worn if you do wish to be filmed/photographed).
If you want PRIVATE and PERSONAL memories from our session, let me know in an email beforehand and we can discuss.
How should I conduct myself when I am in your presence? Is there an etiquette?
Politeness, civility and manners go a long way in life, and I have no patience with rudeness. Perhaps that’s why William Wykeham’s “Manners Makyth Man” has always been a favourite saying of mine (yes even before it featured in Kingsman ).
When are you available?
I can be available whenever I may choose to be. However, generally I offer appointments between 9am & 8pm most days at my discretion. You should e-mail me to check my availability.
I have a particular fetish/fantasy that is not mentioned in section.
You are welcome to e-mail me with brief details of your particular fetish/fantasy and I will then advise you if it would be of interest to me or not.
I’m not into ‘heavy’ S&M or pain but enjoy the sensual side of a Dominant woman being in control s, would you be willing to accept me?
Of course. I enjoy the sensual soft part of the play, the tease, and the denial, and dwelling more into your mind, touching deep into your core, and taking control in the sweet way of the Dominating part.
Do you have your own dungeon?
I have a private location situated near Streatham Hill Station equipped with a fully furnished BDSM dungeon as well as a more domestic area.
Are you fluent in English?
Yes, I am fluent in spoken and written English, to the extent that now I often find it easier to express my ideas in English as opposed to my original native language.
What do I need to do before a session?
The most important thing is to relax and know that you are in good hands! Where possible please try and shower before coming for your session and you may always shower after you arrive before we start. If you are curious or addicted to the idea of pegging and anal play, then please douche before your session (if you are nervous or unsure about this then just ask for advice after your session has been accepted). Lastly please try and avoid heave aftershaves, perfumes, and scents – it can get a bit overwhelming! For any other more specific details, we can discuss them after your request for a session has been accepted.
What if I need to stop during the session? How will I let you know if there is a problem?
Prior to the start of the session, we will discuss your limits and you will also be provided with safety words for you to use at any time when you need them.
How do I request an appointment?
To book a session with me, please follow the steps on my booking page.
Do you see single females or couples?
Yes, I am happy to offer appointments to single females (One of my own lifestyle subs is a female and I definitely love my time with her) and couples.
Will I be able to shower before/after our session?
Yes.
Do you offer same-day appointments?
Advance booking is highly recommended but occasionally my schedule may permit same-day appointments to be available.
Why Mistress Dayana?
It’s important to establish your own boundaries and limits before entering a BDSM session and to communicate them clearly to me. I will respect your boundaries and make sure to stay within them, while still pushing you to explore new experiences within your comfort zone.
Consider Compatibility
It’s crucial to find a Mistress who matches your kinks, interests, and preferences. Take some time to research different Mistresses, read their profiles, and see if their interests align with yours.
Good communication skills
Communication is essential in BDSM, and it’s vital to choose a Mistress who can communicate well and understand your needs and boundaries.
Safety & Professionalism
A Mistress has to be professional and take the necessary precautions to ensure your safety and privacy during the session. Skills and experience are necessary to guide you through a fulfilling BDSM session while maintaining a high level of professionalism and respect.
Experience and expertise
When it comes to BDSM, it’s essential to choose someone who has enough experience and knowledge about the practice.
Still Have Questions? Get In Touch!
If you still have unanswered questions, after thoroughly reading my site then you may reach out. I understand there might be certain question for which you didn’t find the answer on my site. But, please, be respectful of my time, send an email with your question, be polite, concise, and mostly BE SURE you send your questions in 1 email