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Let’s not confuse feminisation in the BDSM context with crossdressing.
Read below!
Crossdresser – is a term used to describe someone who occasionally wears clothing typically associated with a gender different from their assigned one.
Crossdressers may choose to wear clothing associated with the opposite gender (so it can be male-to-female or female-to-male) for various reasons, including exploring their gender identity, expressing themselves authentically, or simply enjoying the experience of wearing different clothing.
There may be some who are submissive, but more often than not they aren’t.
On the other hand, what interests us here in the context of BDSM, kinks and fetishes, feminization is also about power exchange and the desire to submit. It is often linked to Female dominance, domination and submission.
It is about a man, a male who loves embracing his feminine side in a submissive and sexual way.
Why do I like feminisation?
There are so many reasons, but here are just a few examples.
I like dressing men up in women’s clothes, period. I love a man in high-heeled boots, I just find it erotic, and it turns Me on. And sometimes, I find it so, so funny seeing you try to walk in high heels.
Oh, let’s not forget I love chastity, and for Me, every sissy should be placed in chastity.
I find the transformations I see in a male after I feminise him absolutely fascinating; I enjoy seeing the changes in attitude and behaviour.
I also enjoy knowing that I can offer this safe space for your transformation, the trust you put in while I dig deep into your mind and pull out what is hidden there and then use it.
But at the same time knowing you want to submit to Me and wait like a good ‘lil girl/sl@t/maid for my instructions.
It challenges traditional gender roles; it goes against the normal norms of how society defines us. And I adore breaking the “normal” norms!
I enjoy transforming you into My doll. When it comes to sissy sl@ts, I love to ‘use’ your face and see that ruined make up, using all of your holes! I was always a giver, so it is only natural I want to give it to you.
But bottom line, like all of the other kinks I have, is about the power dynamic, the fact that you chose and beg to submit to Me, it’s about the swap of roles and the play with the societal taboo!
Some Feminisation Types
I have been reading and doing a lot of research in my attempt to grasp every psychological aspect of this kink. And what I can say is that I am still finding new information and new ideas, from how we categorise it, to the reasons why, to purpose, etc.
Considering that we can talk about feminisation and sisification or slutification etc, sometimes as different categories, sometimes being used interchangeably, I have thought of some main types of categories of this kink.
F.F. – F@rced Feminisation
The main point of this type of feminisation is more of a role play, and in a way like f@rce intox, it just makes you relieve the responsibility for it. It’s not you who chooses this Taboo, I “f@rced” you therefor mentally you feel less guilty. But, deep down, you know who you are.
It can also be part of the CNC kink- Consensual non-consensual (another kink I secretly love)
It can also be part of the humiliation kink; some might find it utterly humiliating to be dressed up as a woman and be given reverse roles.
I was slightly unsure if I liked this as a humiliation kink, because for Me feminization is about making you better, cute-er and more fvckable.
Until I realised that I could turn it so I would utterly enjoy it. I could say “look at you, not even if I dress you up like a woman and try to elevate you, you’re not capable of being more than a pathetic little worm etc.”. And oh my, how funny I can find it now, and I do love to laugh!
Chastity is a must!
To be noted that there are those who enjoy wearing the frilly, sissy outfits and then there are those who enjoy wearing normal female clothing.
Sissy Maid
I find the maid costume so cute and practical, can easily bend you over and your bum is exposed.
The sissy maid is more service orientated and enjoys submission through service. Basically, you cook and clean while dressed in frilly maid outfits, do your curtsy’s and do any errands and different tasks for Me. The tasks may include making My tea- the way I enjoy it, hovering, dusting, washing out delicate, shining mirrors, and tabletops, organizing clothing away in scented cupboards, etc.
The sissy maid usually loves to be indispensable, a practical necessity as she gets a positive glow in catering for Me.
It can be correlated with also being a ‘lil toy for me (when desired by me of course). Again, the addition of chastity is necessary!
Little sissy/ Sissy baby
They can be so cute, and yet that doesn’t mean they do not deserve any discipline (over-the-knee spanking and, in some cases, using the cane, corner time etc.). Regressive age play is not always about humiliation, and it is not always sexual.
Passive and wanting lots of tender loving care by others, the little/baby sissy desires a lot of tactile interaction and total attention. It can involve nappy wetting, nappy change, nap times, bottle feeding, etc.
The aesthetic is ultra girlie where the clothes have often petticoats, ruffles and laces, happy colours.
Slvtty Sissy
Slvt training is a common form of BDSM submission training where I “teach” you how to be total slvts. Sissy slvts are males who want to become slvtty females. A greedy wh@re, who never misses an opportunity to get some slutty slopy action. She enjoys svcking and being used, and many times she craves the taste of cvm!
Strap-on training, dildo worship, down kneeling, handing yourself over to a Dominant woman like Me, this is what you need.
And don’t forget, bi-sexual fantasies play a significant role here. And I enjoy terrible guiding you into the wonders of bi- play! It is something that turns me on terrible. Seeing you suck a real one for Me, sucking it until it explodes in your mouth. And we all know a good slvt/wh@re doesn’t waste a drop of it. Plus, the protein is good for you.
To be noted that there are those who enjoy wearing the frilly, sissy outfits and then there are those who enjoy wearing normal female clothing.
And the list can go on. I consider these the “main” categories and from then on, we can add and of course they interchange between them, characteristics of one could be found in others: secret sissy, sordid sissy, sweet sissy, show-off sissy, bi-sissy, cuckold sissy, chastity sissy, bimbo sissy, hypno sissy, secret sissy and so on.
This persona can vary, of course, like anything else we talk about individuals, therefore, everything is subjective. It blends gender expression, one’s sexuality, and personal preference of their personality.